How many times have you imagined life with someone and ended up with heartbroken?

How many times have you tried your absolute best to set the foundation of connection with someone and get rewarded with a goodbye? 

How many times have you used your most authentic parts to create something true and meaningful with someone but ended up unvalued?

How many times have you felt tired and exhausted with this part of life, the intimate connection with someone? 

You ask yourself, why is building a genuine love and relationship with someone so difficult and painful?

How many heartbreaks does it take to find genuinely deserving love? 

Does true love for me exist? 

If you are in pain because of heartbreak

Being alone is better than being with the wrong person. 

A heartbreak can save you from a lifetime of painful regret 

Many times, disappointments are meant to serve you, not hurt you. It points you in a new, better direction. 

You have survived the thunderstorm and lived through life challenges long before the person enters your path. Without the person, you will continue to survive and live your life. 

The person who needs love and care at this point is yourself. Redirect your love and energy to yourself.

If you are looking for someone, please know. 

The essential of a loving relationship starts with self-love and self-understanding. If you do not love and understand yourself first, you may end up with the wrong person or push the right person away. 

You must love, understand and treat yourself well. Know your self-worth and values.

You will not settle for less than what you deserve when you know what you deserve better. You know the right qualities in a person you want to take the life journey with.

 Only you can be the best person you can firmly, enduringly and sustainably rely on for your own life. 

Don’t put your hope and happiness with anyone to take charge of. No one in this world can help us better than ourselves. No one is responsible for someone else happiness. The person who can create the best happiness and fulfilment in your life is yourself. You are the generator of your happiness and the source of your joy. 

The other person is not your other half!

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You are whole whether or not you are with or without someone else. 

Bring the whole happy and fulfilled you into the relationship with someone who is also complete of themselves. Instead of expecting the other person to fulfil you, now you both bring values and happiness into the relationship. 

The first place to begin is to stop daydreaming. Imagination is different from reality.

The present moment is the beginning of everything.

The present is the essential foundation of life. We can love and understand ourselves by being with ourselves in the present moment. We will always be safe whenever we are in the present; we can start over anytime minute. We can create the loving life we deserve in the present moment. This life will be happy, fulfilled and meaningful in the present moment.