Feelings do not last. Sooner or later, it will change

Nang Souphaphone

Honestly, this blog post scared me the most; I am very vulnerable here and fearful of being seen as weak and silly. But this is the place, to be real, raw and authentic!

I decided to post this as I have faith that sharing vulnerability is how we deeply connect with others. So I hope that we share the experience and that this post can give you (my dearest readers) some ease that you are not alone. And provide you with some insights to get through this phase, the infatuation phase, with grace, kindness, and perspectives toward yourself and the person you like/have a crush on.

Let’s Get Started 🙂

The feeling of liking someone so much can mess up our mood; it can feel with a mix of joy, sadness, jealousy or even envy all at once. We started by checking their social media many times a day, seven days a week, saving their photos to our gallery and looking at their photos in the morning, at lunch, before bed or anytime really. Then ended up obsessively imagining a romantic relationship with that person. It feels like our whole world fills with love, just two of us

But then the reality hits when we realise that we are daydreaming and that there is nothing there, and left us with a broken heart before the relationship even starts.

Sound familiar?

This is normal. I would like to share my journey and journal how I overcame the obsession when I had a crush on someone I had never met, and he did not know I existed.

The answers to my praying journal

Do you see yourself living with the person forever?
And, at the core, is he the right person? Does he have all the qualities you are looking for?

He may or may not, but know that no one is perfect including you. He may meet your standard on the physical and personality level, but you do not know whether the person will have the compatibility and values you hold and have sought.

How can you know? You will have to spend time with him. There needs to be some connection and conversation to understand each other. If you can, find a way to connect with the person. But if you cannot, for whatever reason, then leave it there; sometimes, somehow, you will, if it is meant to be.

Do not think about the person too much, free your mind, liberate your heart, so there is space to attract the person.

Instead of focusing on getting his attention, why don’t you focus on building yourself to the point where it is irresistible for him to notice you? Not only him but many other men, good men just like him or a probably better fit with what you are looking for.

Build your dream, add values the to world, fulfil your purpose, and then the Universe will give you what is best for you, someone that deserves your beautiful mind, kind heart and loving soul.

You still can like him but with mindfulness. Remember, you cannot build your life by giving more attention to someone else rather than improving yourself and your purposeful path.

When the time comes, whether or not it is him, you are happy, your feelings are blessed, and your heart is free.

You are the child of God; you come here with a purpose, and many people need your help. You can be the light, hope, motivation, peace, possibility, Love, wisdom, truth, authenticity, kindness, beauty and meaning for so many lives can be hundred, thousands, millions or billions, including him.

Be the happiness, peace, perspectives, and the light for yourself and others.

You are here for a reason, make the most of this precious short life.

Journal

Dear God, the Universe, please help me.

If this person has nothing to do with me, my Lord, save me from the obsession and intoxication of this person.

If this is someone I will connect with on a deeper level in the future, may Lord clear the way and make our path meet, connect and reunite.

Please help me rise above and beyond the desires of this world, the feelings, the pain, suffering, gratification, lust, loss and grief.
Please provide me with the light and strength so I can fly up high with the bright light to truly understand human life.

I am suffering; the feeling of liking someone hurts me. How can I love someone without suffering and pain of the desire to be with the person? I feel as if I am heartbroken without even starting the relationship.

I know the possibility was so slim that there is almost zero chance that only a miracle would make the person and me a couple or for the person to be attractive to me.

Lord, what should I pray? Which direction should I ask your blessing for, my liberated heart or person’s heart? Or both. Will that even be possible?

I pray that peace, prosperity, integrity, gratitude, truth, and purification manifest in every area of my life, their life, everyone around them and me and everybody in this world, every being and every element of the Universe.

With the glory of the divine kingdom, may these prayers be pure and heal all life, pain and mistakes.

I pray…..